ATHOH-The Book

Are you hurting from a breakup and wish you could speed up the healing process? Do you feel hoodwinked or conned and utterly disgusted by the whole ordeal? How about feelings of betrayal? (Not just any ol’ betrayal; betrayal of the worst kind). Or, perhaps, you’re longing to understand why you, of all people, had to experience this horrible offense.

In this transparent heart-filled book, first-time author Rhlonda Washington opens up her heart and takes her readers on a journey of an unimaginable marriage betrayal by “him” that turned into hidden blessings from “HIM.” The entire experience ushered her into a life of wholeness and freedom. 

In the, At The Hands Of Him (ATHOH) book, Rhlonda ultimately surrenders her self-sabotaging control and pulls back the layers of shame and embarrassment to finally accept the truth of the betrayal as well as the blessings she didn’t know awaited her on the other side. 

In the companion devotional guide, “Hidden B’Lessons: At The Hand of Him,” she shares 15 of what she calls “B’Lessons” she learned about herself and her God. She shares her story to encourage her readers to trust that God’s hand is in every detail of their lives; the good, bad, ugly, and, yes, betrayal too. If you’ve experienced betrayal at the hands of someone you loved deeply, leaving you feeling completely hopeless, have confidence in knowing you’re not alone. God is right there waiting for you to reach out and grab hold of His hand.

Get Your Signed Copy Today

At The Hands of Him Book $11.99

Companion Devotional Guide $8.99

What Readers Are Saying

  • Brenda S.

    “Wow!! This book is packed with emotions, transparency and fresh perspective regarding pain, loss and victory. Every chapter revealed lessons learned as the writer exposed the intimacy of her journey! Well done Ms Washington and many blessings to you for openly sharing your experience. Indeed you kept it real!!”

  • Tammy R

    “The author is coming from a real place on all levels. No part of life is untouched and once you begin reading you will not put it down until you complete it. It will keep you turning page after page.”

  • Charmaine J.

    “Ladies get a glass of wine, some tea, or some coffee and get ready for an experience. Ms. Washington's vulnerability is beautiful and so real. This sister-talk is real and open. It helps me to see a shifted mindset and God's love for his daughters. Thank you Ms. Washington for your courage and beauty.”

  • Meeks

    I really appreciate this easy read as it beautifully transitions between betrayal and surrendering to God’s will. We all have been (or will be) hurt or betrayed by someone we thought we could trust. Having the tools to survive that period is a must! This book definitely provides those tools to begin personal healing! Recommend 100% to others, Glad I decided to purchase!

  • LaVonia

    “I encourage anyone that has looked at their life and said 'how did I get here?' READ this book, anyone that has faced divorce, disappointment or heartache and is looking for meaning, this book is for you! HIGHLY RECOMMEND!”

  • Unknown

    “At the hands of H(h)im is a journey about really knowing who is in control. You will see Him (God) strip you down to what you think is nothing & restoring you back more than you ever thought possible. Going from why God?to ok, do you hear me, I’m waiting! I like that the author stripped all the phoniness away, and shared the good, bad & ugly. If you’ve ever been the victim of a devastating betrayal, this is a must read. No matter your age, relationship status, you will find content relatable to you.”